My world collapsed last October when the love of my life said that I need to be alone from scratch. Suddenly, she did not want to marry nor have children at all. We have been alive for five years, but this last relationship we had had the most beautiful experience of my life and I was shattered. It does not matter that he was negative for months, and he secretly fears that he never committed to me (ask and ask). I did everything I was not supposed to do: I cried, begged, threw things and lost it. Nothing moved it.
Dark and dark weather follows. There was a deep, dark hole in my chest that didn’t seem to diminish. I thought about death all the time. I’ve had bad breaks before, but that almost killed me. I lost 25 pounds and have no energy at all.
I found the secret stories. I have read and watched The Secret several years ago, but I naturally forgot how to create a beautiful reality. These stories lifted me out completely and gave me hope. I’d like to tell you that it changed overnight. But certainly its not happen. Three months passed without talking at all, really.
I read on the Strong Intentions forum that sometimes the best way to attract your ex is to express clearly your intention and let her go then … date another person. Of course, I loved my ex-boyfriend so much that this seemed contradictory. But when nothing else worked, my best friend persuaded me to join a dating site, and so did it. Everyone on the site made me embarrassed, except for this cute young man. I decided to give it a try and we had a great date. Unfortunately, I was still in a bad place and I spent most of history missing from my ex-boyfriend and I want to cry. I separated the new boy, although I knew he was awesome.
To my surprise, my ex-friend called me the next day. I’m here to tell you that what they say is true: the second moment you start moving forward and leaving you, your ex will feel. I had a coffee date with my ex-friend and I was convinced that I would give the great speech and hear everything I wanted. This is what I did. I started to say yes to friend invitations, I was meditating every day, and I started doing yoga regularly. I did my best to forget it. She made a vision board that had love and hearts everywhere, travel photos and people practicing yoga. I even had to talk in public places there as I went through some very sad things and felt like a basic level that I needed to talk about.
This vision panel worked very quickly, and I can’t even explain it. Coincidentally, my company chose me to speak to 300 people about my trip less than a month after taking a dashboard. A lot of money began to appear in my life. As for the flight, I will arrive in one minute only. In the meantime, the man whom he dated gently called me from time to time.
If you want to keep someone in your life, you MUST make yourself totally happy. Never look to them to do it. Move your body in a way that gets your endorphins going, spend quiet time by yourself raising your vibration, read empowering books, get plenty of sleep, make vision boards, go somewhere you get inspired (it could be church, or the beach, or by watching a movie that really moves you), spend time with friends and family who believe in the best you and raise your vibration.